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Dj ennis 2

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well hi its me again Dj ennis. i have come here to say sorry about what i did. i got salty over a ban i did deserve and im really sorry about that. i am not making this to be unbanned, not at all but i am making this to say sorry. i wish i just took my ban and left bw but i did more then that. i ruined the game for around 2 weeks i think and i cant belive i did that. im sorry to everyone i was rude to and especially sorry to will. i was rude, mean, and not a very good guy. i wish that my apology to be accepted especially by will.
 

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It's good that you are apologizing, but it's hard to tell if you really mean it since you did so much crap to give blackwonder trouble
 

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It's good that you are apologizing, but it's hard to tell if you really mean it since you did so much crap to give blackwonder trouble
I REALLY MEAN IT its has bein like 5 months of regret and i was so "hurt" after what i did, and i feel sorry to everyone i "hurt" or was rude to i can not fully explain how sorry am but i can promes I AM SORRY
 

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I REALLY MEAN IT its has bein like 5 months of regret and i was so "hurt" after what i did, and i feel sorry to everyone i "hurt" or was rude to i can not fully explain how sorry am but i can promes I AM SORRY
If you really are sorry, then maybe it's best for you to just go
 

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man i am leaving whit a
apology
what do u think i said sorry for
for nothing?
No, I'm saying if you are really sorry. Then just let go of blackwonder and leave
 

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i am doing it didnt u see that in my other reply?
side note. ur kinda making me a little pissed whit this replys
K.
Anyways let me clear this up with what I'm saying since some peeps don't understand my point.
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Yes, you are apologizing, thats very nice considering all the past things you have done. However, it isn't going to give you a clean slate. You have caused a lot of trouble, sure you wan't to show that you regret it but I don't think some people will forgive you for all that. I'm suggesting you just leave to avoid more conflict. Also, saying you're getting pissed is a red flag and is a possible sign you might do it again...
 

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K.
Anyways let me clear this up with what I'm saying since some peeps don't understand my point.
Yes, you are apologizing, thats very nice considering all the past things you have done. However, it isn't going to give you a clean slate. You have caused a lot of trouble, sure you wan't to show that you regret it but I don't think some people will forgive you for all that. I'm suggesting you just leave to avoid more conflict. Also, saying you're getting pissed is a red flag and is a possible sign you might do it again...
First off, we aren't grannies who need screenshots as big as the empire state to see what's on there.

Secondly, sure. They could have left without saying a word. Could all have gone and forgotten.
But an apology for whatever done still is somewhere manner. Realizing mistakes and at least attempt in correcting them is something not everyone seems to be capable of.
Forgiving as well is something to be learnt, trying to be more conflicting only results in something bad.

If they are really sorry for (whatever they have done now) and aren't just trolling about it, there will be a feel of regret they deserve. And perhaps the lost reputation that came with these actions. Their punishment if you will.
There is no need to light up another fire. It makes things just more complicated for everyone.

If there was some major offenses in all of this, they wouldn't even be able to write this at all.

I strongly suggest to not get you people into a war.... Because a heckin apology letter.
 

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First off, we aren't grannies who need screenshots as big as the empire state to see what's on there.

Secondly, sure. They could have left without saying a word. Could all have gone and forgotten.
But an apology for whatever done still is somewhere manner. Realizing mistakes and at least attempt in correcting them is something not everyone seems to be capable of.
Forgiving as well is something to be learnt, trying to be more conflicting only results in something bad.

If they are really sorry for (whatever they have done now) and aren't just trolling about it, there will be a feel of regret they deserve. And perhaps the lost reputation that came with these actions. Their punishment if you will.
There is no need to light up another fire. It makes things just more complicated for everyone.

If there was some major offenses in all of this, they wouldn't even be able to write this at all.

I strongly suggest to not get you people into a war.... Because a heckin apology letter.
I'm not trying to start anything, but people just keep taking what I've said out of context :/
 

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tl;dr of the whole thread:

Dennis,

DDoSing, breaking rules with a series of alt accounts, and other unmentioned offenses makes people less likely to forgive even after several months. It's a good start that you're apologizing. But in some cases [like this one], apologies alone aren't enough to convince people that you've turned a new leaf and are ready to restart potential good relations. In this case, others don't trust you at the moment and you might need to make more of a difference to convince them. Trust isn't something that's gained by a single word. It takes more to regain someone's trust. I don't think now is the time to retry that since:

saying you're getting pissed is a red flag and is a possible sign you might do it again...
It's not impossible, but it's going to be far from easy. If you're looking for a way to regain someone's trust, the first thing to do is to give it more time. Thanks for understanding and I hope that something will happen in the future that would be enough to put the past in the past. I also wish this thread can help you in the future, even outside of BLW, because no one is a lost cause.
 
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tl;dr of the whole thread:

Dennis,

DDoSing, breaking rules with a series of alt accounts, and other unmentioned offenses makes people less likely to forgive even after several months. It's a good start that you're apologizing. But in some cases [like this one], apologies alone aren't enough to convince people that you've turned a new leaf and are ready to restart potential good relations. In this case, others don't trust you at the moment and you might need to make more of a difference to convince him. Trust isn't something that's gained by a single word. It takes more to regain someone's trust. I don't think now is the time to retry that since:



It's not impossible, but it's going to be far from easy. If you're looking for a way to regain someone's trust, the first thing to do is to give it more time. Thanks for understanding and I hope that something will happen in the future that would be enough to put the past in the past. I also wish this thread can help you in the future, even outside of BLW, because no one is a lost cause.
I agree 100%+ with this. It's not like I hold grudges forever, and of course not just me. Eventually in time trust will be regained
 

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tl;dr of the whole thread:

Dennis,

DDoSing, breaking rules with a series of alt accounts, and other unmentioned offenses makes people less likely to forgive even after several months. It's a good start that you're apologizing. But in some cases [like this one], apologies alone aren't enough to convince people that you've turned a new leaf and are ready to restart potential good relations. In this case, others don't trust you at the moment and you might need to make more of a difference to convince him. Trust isn't something that's gained by a single word. It takes more to regain someone's trust. I don't think now is the time to retry that since:



It's not impossible, but it's going to be far from easy. If you're looking for a way to regain someone's trust, the first thing to do is to give it more time. Thanks for understanding and I hope that something will happen in the future that would be enough to put the past in the past. I also wish this thread can help you in the future, even outside of BLW, because no one is a lost cause.
i guess that makes sense, its hard for mostly "everyone" but thanks the reply made me feel like i got hope to atleast gain som trust in the admins i was rude and awful to.
 

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where did you get that from?
I reached out to Aegeus Dusk since no staff members were online at the time. Here's part of the PM exchange:

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He may not have been the one to actually "pull the trigger," but conspiring with and/or recruiting people to do so still counts. If this wasn't the real reason, or part of the reason, why this person was banned, then I do apologize for that. Even if it wasn't, the OP responded to my reply by seemingly acknowledging that's what was primarily causing the drama. He would have denied those reasons if he didn't actually do any of them. I wanted the "you did so much crap" part of the story to be less ambiguous to anyone that might glance to this thread in the future while also trying to be helpful. In the end, the situation ended benignly with:
thanks the reply made me feel like i got hope to atleast gain som trust in the admins i was rude and awful to.
And that's honestly all that matters at this point....at least for now.
 

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I think the reason he was actually banned was for talking while muted after getting chances and warnings. I was there when it happened but I can't remember it so clearly, he got banned since there was some kind of problem with commblocks and bans which is how he could talk while muted and gagged in the first place, of course, it wasn't really his fault they were down or whatever but he knew what he was doing was wrong and that he was not supposed to do it since it had happened before and he had been warned. He said sorry many times before they were back up and working again which made most people feel a bit sorry for him, but then he kept causing trouble in BLW after he got banned which made most people dislike him, at least that's how I remember it. (Oh, and he was especially rude and toxic towards Will who was the one that banned him.) @Blizz
Edit: Probably why Aegeus and others have a hard time accepting his apology.
 

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well hi its me again Dj ennis. i have come here to say sorry about what i did. i got salty over a ban i did deserve and im really sorry about that. i am not making this to be unbanned, not at all but i am making this to say sorry. i wish i just took my ban and left bw but i did more then that. i ruined the game for around 2 weeks i think and i cant belive i did that. im sorry to everyone i was rude to and especially sorry to will. i was rude, mean, and not a very good guy. i wish that my apology to be accepted especially by will.
Well honestly you had your chances to get your apologies accepted if you weren't exploitting and rejoining back on the server on Blu team just to mass freekill people honestly for me this almoust seems like a joke
 
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