As this has me cut out from the warnings given and the attempts at diffusing multiple situations during this time, I will add some onto what Robb has said. While we have both agreed that some people do not like Honey's tone or feel that she is passive aggressive, the simplest option that is always thrown out (mostly by her) is that you mute this person. Instead, some continue to listen and wait for an opportune moment that she says something and try to attack what she has said.
So when someone like theking (who is talking on the video) says he enjoys twisting people's words to get a rise outta them, she suggests he stops doing that to prevent him from trolling someone. When Voodoo starts in mostly about her not leaving the base, she brushes him off with statements such as "Sure go with that", "Uh huh sure" "Thats nice dear" and yet he continued on. When individuals such as yourself Bearded come in and say things like "guys the heavy took a big fuking cum slop faggot shit" or "shit cum faggot time is over" (Yes, those are your actual quotes) and you get called out for your use of Hate Speech, you do not like it because you want to say whatever you wish. So instead of muting Honey, who you find to be a "gigantic passive aggressive asshole", you choose to continue to listen to her in an attempt to find ammunition against her. However you have no difficultly with muting others as its clear via example below, you do know how to.
The irony of most of this is, Honey prevents more comm blocks than she is involved in creating. Removing Honey from any of these episodes would have simply resulted in these people receiving a warning and then being comm blocked immediately thereafter if it continued to fit the required situation. However, the vast majority of complaints against Honey are created from people looking for anything to try and attack her, borne from their personal grievance against her. They will never mute her and always sit there and wait for her to say something, as ammo against her. When that fails, they attack something else she is doing or not doing. Once that fails again, the insults or name calling starts and you get muted/gagged for breaching BLW server rules and then come in to complain about me muting you because you think Honey said so.
Just remember, Honey is the nice one and will have a conversation with you in an attempt to help you not get punished. You may not like her, her tone, or her telling you what a rule is but it is an attempt to educate those that don't know the rules. This has proven to work in more cases than not. The amount of times some people come back to the server and do not mute her, at her invitation mind you, and continue on to eventually get comm blocked due to attempts at harassing her, is staggering. These individuals are punished for breaking server rules, not at her say so or mine. If your "entire circle of friends" do not wish to come in, that's your choice, as is muting her. BLW will still be here.